How does one “ court ” a potential spouse? You see, here are my concerns. The world “ dates. ” But I don’t think that this is acceptable for Christians to do. That may shock you, but let me explain why. Dating has romance in mind. That is its end goal and objective. The two parties are getting to know each other, progressively increasing in romance . The only thing that separates the world and Christians, is that Christians stop before sex ( or at least they BETTER ). But the romance that leads up to that should be shunned as well. Consider this: Modern dating is treated as a “ testing ” period of sorts, where you are trying a relationship to see if you are suited for marriage. And if problems or incompatibility arises during this “ test ” period, you “ break-up. ” In the meantime though, it is safe to assume that you have participated in romantic activities with that person. You’ve probably flirted , hel...